There are more ways to make the families better. First, listen to each other actively and see
things in different perspectives. Stop interrupting anyone at all and be willing to admit when ot-
hers are right. Do not keep thinking that only the adults have the best solutions. A lot of kids
are wise and they need their voices heard very often.
The children do not want to be shut out from any family problems and activities. So make th-
em feel included in all that pertains to the household. The kids need to know more than you a-
re telling them. There's no need to sugar-coat because life is reality.
Even if you continue to hide situations and keep them in the dark about the world, the children
will still hear and know almost everything under the sun. They will get the information from out-
side of the residences but it is better for you to inform them. The accidental leakage will not s-
top though because people are everywhere.
The kids need the more safe, honest, reliable sources and that is where you come in. Just do
not blame any family members. Do not ever put anyone in the middle of heated situations just to
get out of those yourself. That devilish action could scar some family members for life mentally &
emotionally.
You do not want that crap weighing on your conscience so do the right things regarding every-
thing. Do not misuse your power just to get your points across ever. When that horrible action is
done, you will feel bad in the long run. So save yourself from that pain and agony.
Some children will rightfully earn your respect in time so sincerely reward them with respons-
ibilities, privileges, and power. Then, some of your kids will be more confident and ready to do
more good tasks. Some of them will come to you for more answers which will make you beco-
me a better parent.
Some of the kids will stop associating with bad people and crowds. Some of them will accept th-
emselves for who they really are more frequently. Some of the children will accept more of their f-
laws & realize that they are features. Some of the youngsters will appreciate their alone time with
ease, so a lot of their fears will go away.
Some of them will stop trying to so-call fit in with the wrong groups of folks. Some of the kids wi-
ll choose more wholesome friends and associates seriously. Some of them will automatically st-
art doing all of their chores without being asked repeatedly. You will thank yourself and want to
do even more great things consistently.
You will not be scared to show humility anymore. They need you to always be fair with them. S-
ome of your children will even tell you where they are and some will be honest with their locatio-
ns too. When the family needs to spend more quality time together, do so with creativity. Go to
some of their favorite places with them, so you know that they are safe.
Listen to each others' music and focus on the lyrics. Try to understand why each other listens to
the artists, groups, & bands. You can go even further and research a lot of those artists, groups,
& bands so that you know their backgrounds. A lot of them do mix some negative messages in
with their positive messages, so focus on the positive.
You can throw balls with all of your kids simultaneously and/or individually. Make sure to play li-
ke that with them several times a week regardless of your schedule. Play with the children som-
etimes before you leave for work and they leave for school.
You have to finally put your kids and spouse before your work regularly, so that they know that
you thoroughly care about them. So rock out with them & do your daughters' hair. Well, at least
try to because the thoughts actually count. Trust me, they will appreciate the gestures.
Talk with your kids whenever you are spending time with them, so that you find out what is going
on in their lives. Whether it is good or bad, you need to know that often. They would rather keep it
hidden because of school, their peers, pride, their egos, and/or their bad attitudes. Make time to
go into their rooms to sit down and converse with them without shame.
Throw darts, play Nerf basketball, race toy cars, play cards, play board games, and play some of
their videogames while talking with them. If your children have moved out, then go visit them where
they reside and make it a good habit. Let all family members make decisions regarding groceries,
furniture, appliances, devices, and entertainment for the household.
The kids do have a lot of terrific suggestions that are surprisingly wholesome. Please hear them
out because they think hard and well too. Give them a rush of sincere hugs to reassure them of
your genuine love. Don't ever leave out your spouse either, so do most of the the actions that I m-
entioned to them on a consistent basis.
They do not want to feel let down without crowns. Give them your full attention wholeheartedly so
that no one becomes neglected in any way. Make them smile and laugh. These are tips that cou-
ld actually make the families better.
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